It’s been a week since Baby Elle was born. So far, it’s been a lot of re-figuring things out (from how Aaron was) and also discovering how she is.
SLEEP
The first couple of nights were easy, I don’t know how that happened but they were. I didn’t even have to wake up my husband at all for anything. The following nights were a little more challenging, but it’s not too bad. Right now, it seems like as long as she sleeps right next to me (around 12:30- 1am), I can easily hear her make her whimpering sounds. (Yes, those whimpering sounds are my warning. Thank goodness she does that before she would go all out crying.) Anyway, she would make those sounds when she would wake up in the middle of the night hungry (about 4:30-5am) , so all I have to do is feed her, change her, watch her stay awake for a little bit and then she’ll sleep again (at about 5:30-6am) and won’t wake up till 8 or 8:30. I think it’s pretty good. A lot better than what I was anticipating.
AARON
Aaron is the reason why I wanted to catch Elle before she started crying. The first time she cried out loud and woke Aaron up from sleeping, Aaron was annoyed and covered his ears. I didn’t want him to think that his sister is bugging him. I didn’t want anything to cause tension between the 2 of them, especially since he’s still adjusting with Elle. But right now, Aaron’s doing really good with having a sister. He kisses her, entertains her, continually acknowledges her and says he loves her. The other day, my parents asked Aaron if they can take home the baby, and Aaron said “No!” He still needs to learn how to be a lot more careful and quieter around the baby, but he’s doing great! I just wish he was already potty trained though =(
RECOVERY
Well, considering that my labor was extremely quick (My contractions started at 5:30 AM and the baby came out at 7:20 AM), I didn’t have an epidural. I was able to move about right away, which I’m very grateful for. I needed to be alert and up to care for my two children now. Especially since my husband has the graveyard shift 4 nights a week. Anyway, the first few days weren’t so bad and then all of a sudden, I started having cramps and felt sore. Hmmmn, I guess it’s like when you go on a workout and then don’t feel the soreness till a few days later. But, I feel better everyday. =) I’m still hoping I’m fully recovered before 4-6 weeks.
GRATEFULNESS
Here are a few things I’ve been grateful for…
…things seem a little easier the second time around
…having some time to be mentally prepared for handling our family with our newest addition
…family and friends for their love and support (visits, greetings, warm wishes, warm meals), they mean a lot to us
…a beautiful and healthy baby girl
…that my husband was home when I went into labor (something I’ve been praying for since it would be so difficult if he wasn’t)
…a wonderful son
…knowing that God will take care of us no matter what…